Good manners are an important part of the Islamic faith. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, “The best among you are the best in moral character.” (Sahih Al Bukhari)
The Prophet (SAW) is the perfect example of best character and morals for humankind. Allah Almighty says in the Quran in Surah Al-Ahzab (Chapter 33, verse 21):
لَّقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِى رَسُولِ ٱللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌۭ لِّمَن كَانَ يَرْجُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَٱلْيَوْمَ ٱلْـَٔاخِرَ وَذَكَرَ ٱللَّهَ كَثِيرًۭا ٢١
Indeed, in the Messenger of Allah, you have an excellent example for whoever has hope in Allah and the Last Day and remembers Allah often.
The Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) teach us to:
- Show kindness to others.
- Be forgiving.
- Treat others with respect.
- Don’t lie, no matter how difficult telling the truth is.
- Do not backbite or gossip about others.
- Control your anger. Do not say bad words to others, no matter how angry or upset you are.
- Always speak pleasantly and politely, and do not scream or shout at others.
- Always keep your promises to others.
- Do not insult or be rude to others, especially your parents.
- Always be kind and respectful towards elders, especially parents.
- Be good and welcoming to guests.
- Don’t make fun of others or bully them.
Always be humble and show humility, no matter how great your achievements are.
Don’t waste food or resources.
- Don’t call others bad names or make fun of their names or other attributes.
- Always be respectful of your teachers.
- Be just and fair in any argument or dispute.
- Always keep yourself and your home clean.
Be kind and gentle with animals. Do not hurt or abuse them.
Help others in their time of need.
